Boyfriend away (day 4)

hey people! :)

Day 4

So i literally ton up with my 2 secondary school boys till 0630hrs! we was so bored and we went out to get some drinks and foods back to the chalet.I was the only girl left awake while the rest of the girls went to bed at 0400hrs..The boys and i decided to leave first thing in the morning so we stayed up late,watching tv,drinking those liquor( we mixed with green tea and sprite)..and i don't know at what point we off the tv and started talking and talking..we talked about what we did back in secondary school and they told me so much stupid stuffs that they used to do back then,like dumping classmates into the dustbin,locking classmate into the firehose cabin..and more.. I was shocked of what they did! i had never talked to the boys so much before..i enjoyed myself by talking to them and listening to their stupid stories..good time always past really fast, we talked for almost 1hr and half and we didn't realized it was already 0630hrs in the morning..haha!
Took a cab back home with them! so to finalize this,i enjoyed so much!:D

went home didn't slept much..something unhappy happened at home..don't feel like blogging it!

In the evening,i went out for dinner with my family!
and after that headed home to watch the Formular one!

thats how my day was spent!

i miss my boy already! :(

tats about it
goodnight!

Boyfriend away. (day 3)

Whatsupp people im here to blog again!
Currently at the chalet with my secondary school classmate :)

Day 3

Woke up and saw my brother cooking breakfast for us..I rarely see him doing all this stuffs..
In the afternoon I prepared myself and headed to the chalet..I was so clueless of how to get there and so I used the gps for the first time.. :/ but eventually I made it there.
Reached the chalet around 5pm and trying to help out with the girls as Much as I can..went out to get water and wire mash with two of my friends and I bought a soild fuel to help the girls to start the fire more smoothly..
Eventually one of the guy finally came And he helped us to get the fire started! I dont know what time we started barbecuing, but I enjoyed barbecuing more then eating
Soon our ex form teacher came and I have this weird feeling because it's so different now, he is like a friend to us now instead of teacher..we sat around the table,eat and talk together,talked about what happened back then during secondary days,the bintan camp,how my ex former teacher threw markers at us when we aint paying attention and we called the "the flying markers" and many more things, I swear we had a great time laughing..
after that we played "indian poker" ,okay this was how the game goes:
You pick a card out from the deck and put it on ur forehead without peaking on it, and all u have to do is to ask ur friend,do my card need a change,if they say yes u can choose to believe them or no..if u believe what they said and u decided to change,that will be ur final card..and after that when everybody is done,everyone counted 1,2,3..and we all show the deck,whoever got the lowest card will need to do punishment!
Cool isn't it! I got punished once and my dare was to kiss my girl friend on her cheek but my teacher wasnt that lucky,he lost the game 3 times in a row and we punished him by ask everyone of us stuffing marshmallow into his mouth,there is 9 of us so his mouth is pretty full with marshmallow! Hahaha!
We ended our gethering with the teacher by toasting with vodka, I find it cool cos we finally legal to drink with teacher! Took some photos with him before he went off!
Currently watching movie with those that are staying overnight here..while they are watching movie "purge",im seating at one Corner blogging!

Well I don't know what to blog abt my boyf today,we texted and I took picture of my chalet and the old changi hospital building and sent it to him,he was so sweet that he asked me to text him tmr when I reach home safely..cos he is kind of worried abt me staying here..:) he kept asking me if there were boys staying over because he find it dangerous to let girls to stay alone at the chalet..haha,I asked him not to worried cos there are two boys staying over with us! I swear I misses his voice! Few more days to go and he will be back in to time!

That's all,I shall go join my friends now!

Goodnight

Boyfriend away. (Day 2)

Hey people,I'm back for another diary post! just to remind you that this 10  days it will be posts about how i spent my day when my boyfriend is away.

you people can choose not to read this. >.<

Day 2

Today was a horrible day for me..Had menstruation cramp during work and i have to bear with the pain and continue till knock off :(

so i spent my whole day at work! so there will be nothing to blog about! :D

anyway today my boy and i texted and he told me that soon tycoon will be striking towards his camp site ..I ain't worry about him because when the tycoon strike because he will be restricted from going else where and stay in his bunk! so i joked with him by asking him to go outside of his bunk and test if the tycoon wind can blow a fat pig(him) away! :P (to clarify this,it's only a joke,of course i know how tycoon is like so i won't be so stupid by asking my boyfriend to go and die) at first he didn't knew that i was being sarcastic to him but after i told him that i was being sarcastic,he sent me back an angry face emoji,at that very moment i was giggling like a mad lady at my working place..luckily no one sees it,if not i don't know where to throw my face to! :P

I'm glad that i was able to text with him more then yesterday! but when the tycoon strike,he might not be contactable for awhile :( But i know he will be just fine! nothing will happen to the fat pig unless his foods got snatch away and got eaten up by others (because this pig of mine have zero tolerance to people that snatch and eat up his favourite foods away from him =P )

oh ya, he really wrote a post and posted in on social media for me!he just put a smile on my face!damn,i never knew he did what he had promised me before he flew off..LOL or maybe is because i kept pestering him for it..yeah maybe he couldn't stand me for pestering after him for a post and so he did it just to shut me up xD HAHAHA

That's all for today
I just had my medicine, I'm going to bed now
Goodnight!

boyfriend is out of town. (day 1)

hello! i'm back to update my blog, as u can read from my title..
i decided to blog about all this 10 days when my boyfriend is out of town..like how i spend my day and how i feel.
just want to make this like a diary and 10 years down the road if i still remember about this blog and i get to read back all my posts , i'm definitely going to have a good laugh at myself!

well people you can choose not to read this,as i said it's a diary post :)

Day 1

So this morning we texted while he was waiting for boarding,never seen him this excited before,well maybe it's because this was his first time taking a flight and finally getting out of the country, somewhere further then malaysia. He is so cute that he took a photo of his aircraft and sent it to me through whatsapp..and before his flight took off,he sent me a text message but at that point of time i had already slept..so didn't get to reply him before the flight took off.. :/ 

Woke up at 9am in the morning,saw all his messages and photo that he sent me before he flew off and wondering have he touched down safely because i didn't receive any messages from him few hours after his flight took off.. I know it's really stupid to feel soulless for the whole day but that's how i felt for the entire day..maybe it's because i just want to receive his text and telling me that he have already reached there safe and sound.My colleagues asked me what's wrong and i told them that about this, and one of them was joking with me and she said "you know why he haven't text you because he is busy eating all the local delicacies and looking for those local babes" HAHA, never knew she said that to me..and what came in to my mind was maybe busy eating all the delicacies will be true but looking for local babes..hmm,maybe no bah,i know that he won't be this stupid..maybe will look at them la,aiya 90 percent of the guys will always look at pretty girls..because it's their natures. HAHAHAHA! I laughed when she said that he was busy eating delicacies and looking for local babes!

 At night my boy finally texted me through whatsapp, wah i tell you i felt like a piece of heavy rock finally moved away from my chest and let my soul back to my body haha!He told me that he didn't knew that there was wifi in the camp until now, I can't blame him for not giving me a text when he reached there because firstly it's his first time travelling to other country and didn't know there was wifi at the military camp..aiya nevertheless i don't really care la,at least he sent me a text at night! better then nothing! :D 

Well it's so hard for me to contact him when he is out of town!can't even use text messages to text him for the time being..and again i can't blame him for that cause i was away in singapore more then he does so he felt all this more then i do! I'm consider myself lucky because i got to take a flight and travel to other country since at the age of SEVEN and after i met my boyfriend,i left him alone in singapore for 3 times! haha! and this was the first time that he left me in singapore and i finally get a taste of my own medicine,i finally feel how he feel when i was away!sighh haha i know all this is only temporary one la,he will be back in singapore in no time! I don't know what will he and his platoon mates will be doing for their oversea training Just hope that he will have a good time over there and i know he will! he better remember to get my facial form back if not i will kill him and roast him up!

oh ya,i was talking with my boy about posting random post for each other this morning,i told him that i always posted surprise posts for him on social media but he will never post for me and he replied me by telling me to wait and see..he is trying to say that he will prove me wrong..
well i never really take that into my heart cos for the past 3 years he hardly done that and its really hard for me to believe what he said this morning,i know he was just joking that he will prove me wrong! hahaha!

that's all for now

goodnight!

:D

special post for you.

well baby you will be going away for 10 days..it's not very long la but two weekend without you seem really boring :P but doesn't matter la at least you finally get to go oversea! like finally right! :D I never knew this was how you felt when i am always away, well this feeling sucks but you gone through this feeling more then i do,I'm so sorry yeah? :P  11 more hours to your flight, i bet you are excited right! Have a safe trip! most of all enjoy your trip :) give me a text when you reach okay? I will be waiting for you to come back and tell me about your trip and also watch "annabella doll" with me!

Hope you love this little gift that i got for you!:) i know u will love it because it's from me! :D

that's all! love you! :D

see u in october!

Being girlfriend of NSF/SAF regular's

read some blogs about being girlfriend of NFS/SAF regular..not one blog but a few of them! I couldn't agreed more! they really wrote out what i was really feeling as a girlfriend of a NFS..i have a boyfriend that is serving his national service now!so i totally know how those girls are feeling!just want to share my thoughts after reading all the blogs!

My boy and i have be together for 3 years plus now..we met each other in the school at the start our relationship don't turned out to be good but as the years go by,our relationship became stable and we get really comfortable with each other now.

I'm glad to be in his life before he got enlisted for national service because I got to see how he changed from a boy to a man,I saw how my boy grown during the years in the army..I got to attend his passing out parade,and even before his Passing out parade I got to send him of to tekong and saw him taking the oath and even got to listen to him whine about how tough,tired and mentally tired it was during his Basic military training days..although sometimes the things he said gets really boring that doesn't mean it's not worth listening.. I mean how many years can you get to hear about him talking or whining to you about all this, not a lot right..so just enjoy those moment that he came up and started whining to you about what happened in his camp!and amazingly you will get to know what you usually don't hear about army! :D

I was also overly attached to my boy before he got enlisted,we met almost every single day,due to school and because of that during his 2 weeks confinement i really felt like shit and thinking why are the days going by so slowly! i must even get use to him texting me till a certain timing only and most of all i must get use that he only have weekend to accompany me..sometimes due to his guard duty he only have half Saturday with me,and during his book out days my boy always love spending most of the time playing or even sleeping at home rather then thinking of where to go on a date with me..I even have to get use of going out with him lesser too :'(  at that point of time i really feel like shit but i didn't chose to dump him just like that because i know how those training have mentally and physically drained him and he only want to rest as much as he can during his book out days.

Things doesn't get better after he passed out from basic military school, he got posted to his new unit and at the start i get almost every weekend with him but as months goes by he gotten some duty that he have to do..and so we get to meet lesser and lesser and sometimes we can't even meet each other..it sucks but i can't put the blame on him because he also doesn't want to burn his weekend just to go back in camp and do some duty! We get to text lesser, at first i got really mad at him because he doesn't text me everyday like he used to anymore but now i won't get mad if he doesn't text me for a day or even a few days because i know he might be having a tiring days after all his duty and he only want to get some rest after a long day. So please don't get paranoid or anything if your boy doesn't reply or even text you for a day or even days..not that they don't want to,maybe it's just that they are having a tiring day and all they wanted was to get as much rest as they can..

As months gone by,i understand more and more about what my boy is going through,although sometime there is still a lot of  "WHY" questions in my head but i guess i have all the answers to my questions,time will clarify all my "WHY" questions! As months gone by there is still pros and cons being a NSF's girlfriend but to me being NSF's girlfriend wasn't that bad after all , So if your boyfriend doesn't have time with you like he used to doesn't mean you have to dump him away and find someone that can provide you all of his time! your boyfriend himself want to give u all the time that he have but he just can't ,not that he don't want to.. Trust me during their NS days is the only time that can prove how strong your relationship can get..Try being understanding and lend them your listening ears during this time just Be his pillar of support! and yes not only girls want being pampered like a princess sometimes boys also want to be pampered like a prince..Not all guys have to do what girls want to do sometimes they also want us to do what they want to do..they are human being too!

So to conclude my post,Try before thinking of giving up because you doesn't know what will happen if you doesn't even give it a shot!

I am glad to have my boy in my life although most of the time he is being really irritating! I just want to thank him for being such a sweet boy by bringing me out for a date when he could use the time staying at home resting and play his favorite game!sometimes he even agreed to go on a movie date with me on his book out day when he only have a few hours of sleep and got up really early for his duty! He gave me a chance to experience how is it to be a NSF's girlfriend, starting it sucks really bad but after all the stuffs that he said to me,made me learnt something new about army life and all the Passing out parade etc that i attended and even got a chance to see him grown from boy to man,everything is just worth it. Sometimes when i see couple on the streets or mall on the weekdays or during those days that he can't meet, i will always be thinking where is my boyfriend,why can't he just appear in front of me now and give me a hug but then i know that not he don't want to ,because he is serving the national service thats why he can't get to book out on weekdays!

Hey,boy..i'm might not be a very understanding girlfriend but still i am trying to be,thank you for giving me almost all of your weekend!I know most of the time you are mentally and physically drained
just want to say thank you for serving the nation and thank you for letting me see how much you have grown from a childish boy to a mature thinking man..I know that you are trying your best to text me as much as you can..I know this will sound really cheesy,but i am proud to have a man that is serving the nation with his life! love you!

Goodnight!

Bangkok trip

Hi guys i'm back to update my blog!
i'm so sorry that i didn't get to update for so long because i was away to bangkok!

bangkok is really a shopping paradise! i was there for 3 days and already ran out of money :/

On the first day i headed to the airport at 6.30am in the morning because my flight was at 8am,this time around i chose to take tiger airway to bangkok,this was my very first taking budget flight and it wasn't a very bad experience at all,just that its really boring..but i boarded the flight in a really cool way!

coolest way to board a flight!

reached thailand around 1030hrs almost 1100hrs (singapore time) and when i reached bangkok then i realized that bangkok time is an hour slower then singapore! 

anyway we took a cab to the hotel,it was a 45mins ride from the airport to hotel..

i stayed at this hotel called "Glow Pratunam hotel" it's a 3 stars hotel..i enjoyed my stay here at Glow. the hotel was so prefect that you will want to return again and again! Opp the hotel is all the fashion mall like platinum fashion mall and this hotel is near all the wholesale market and all the street foods!

as soon as we reached the hotel and checked in, we went out to have our lunch..we started to taste all the street foods!it was super cheap and tasty, the chinese yam kuei(cake),laksa and fried chicken tasted really really good! 

After we done with our lunch we headed to the wholesale market for shopping! the market shirt is all ranging from 100-250baht(4sgd-10sgd) we shopped for hours and hours.. i won't be blogging about my shopping trip because it's really long! overall i enjoyed my shopping!i bought almost a mountain of clothes for myself and didn't forget to get for my friends and boyfriend!

After a tired day of shopping we went to have some seafood for dinner!their dishes tasted really awesome!especially the huge fish and lala (clams)! 

dinner at bangkok

After dinner we went to a shop called NaRaYa for shopping..i don't really fancy about this brand like how my aunt and mom does so i just bought bags for my mom! 

after shopping,we went for thai massage,it's only 200baht(8bucks) for an hour,how cheap can that be!

after that headed back to the hotel with a few beers and chips! their beers is like 49baht(somewhere around 1.50bucks) OMG cheap right! once we reached back our hotel,took a hot shower and enjoyed a can of beer before heading to bed! and thats how i spent my first day at bangkok.

On the second day, i woke up at 8am and went down for breakfast! i love their buffet breakfast! it tasted really good,not like some 3 stars hotel their breakfast tasted really awful! >=( 

Breakfast at bangkok! :) satisfaction

After breakfast,we started our shopping again of course! 

we shopped till 12pm plus and we headed to this famous wanton mee shop that is only nearby our hotel for lunch!

it was only 12pm plus and the whole shop was already packed with people and we have to queue up and wait for empty seat! =/  their pork knuckle tasted heavenly good and the wanton mee wasn't that bad all!  

Lunch at bangkok!

After our lunch we are back to shopping again,we shopped till 3pm and we headed back to the hotel to get some rest for a short while! so i took the time and headed to the hotel gym,i was really impressed with their gym facility!they are only a 3 stars hotel and they have such a good facility!

gym at glow hotel

worked out for an hour and headed back to the room to get some shower after that went out for dinner and then shopping shopping shopping and after that we went for massage again!:)  since it was the last night at bangkok and we are completely ran out of money for dinner, we bought some street foods back to the hotel to eat with my iced cold beers! we bought like grilled sotong(octopus) ,prawns and fried chicken and phad thai and some cup noodles!

last dinner at bangkok!

yes we shopped till we had cup noodles for dinner!i know it's really ridiculous but yes its true :'( 

anyway on the last day,we woke up at 8am again,prepared ourself and we got down for breakfast!

yummy breakfast!

After breakfast we went out and headed to a temple and do some praying to the four faced Buddha!

we didn't went for any shopping this time around cos we was completely broke..so we headed back to the hotel for checked out and we left our luggages with the reception and headed out for lunch at one of the mall food court! satisfaction lunch!

After that we went to get some waffles and some really cute buns to bring it back to singapore 

all this cute little things are buns and its edible!

tried peach milk tea for the first time!

we got tired of walking and we headed to A&W for root beers! yes i have be craving for A&W root beers float for years and i finally get to have it again! 

A&W root beer float!

After that we headed back to the hotel lobby and get some rest till 5pm, got up a cab and headed to the airport! got ourself checked in and grabbed some sandwiches before the flight at 8pm! well thats basically my trip to bangkok! i missed bangkok so much! the shopping and foods but most of all was the hotel stay at GLOW!definitely heading back to glow hotel next time!

Goodbye bangkok! till we meet again! :(

My craziness days at Bangkok with my cousin!

thats about it! thanks for reading!

Goodnight!